Now back to the boyfriend/ex-boyfriend issue. For those of you not following the saga...1 | 2 | 3 | 4 Now that you're all caught up, I'm now wishing that maybe I should have listened to Janell. The ex- and I tried to give this a second chance, but I'm not really sure if we did or not...and even if he really wanted to. He's not quite over his ex-, so I'm not really sure what the point is of trying anything. He's not ready for commitment yet, he's not ready for much of anything in the boyfriend range. Yesterday, he told me he wanted to date. I asked him who, just to make sure I wasn't off base. Turns out I wasn't. He said "People." That kinda puts a major damper on any relationship doncha think? I asked him what we were, and he avoided the question by asking me what I thought we were. I felt stupid saying "Boyfriends" cause I don't really think that's what we are. And he was so non-committal about it too....I guess that just does back to him saying he doesn't want a "commitment" yet. I'm beginning to wonder if he ever will. And when everyone tries to tell him to move on, he says that's just gonna make him take longer to do. Of course, with him continuously bringing it up himself, how is THAT helping?!