I got sooo pissed at him (the ex-boyfriend) tonite, I hung up on him, one of the things he utterly hates. He refuses to take responsibility for his actions of the predicament he's currently in! It is so frustrating talking ot him trying to make him see that everything that's happened has been because of one stupid mistake he made. But he keeps blaming the cops..."cause they were involved." (Yes, it's a serious enough mistake that the Police are involved.) And gee, why were the cops involved in the first place? Hmm...I wonder...could it have been just coincidence?...nah....maybe bad luck?....nope. Gee, I can't think why. Couldn't have been what he did. The worse part is I don't know how to help him. That is the most frustrating. If he continues on this path, flirting with danger, taking risks, he's gonna wind up in jail eventually. And that's what I told him just before I hung up on him. "Go to jail, then. See if I f*&king care," to be precise. And that's the sadest part of all. I do care. I care too damn much to see him ruin his life like this. And there's nothing I can do about it.